Some time ago, I experienced a major personal setback. It wasn’t something I saw coming—it hit me like a freight train. I was lied to, betrayed by people I trusted, and caught in the toxicity of dysfunctional conflict. I felt broken, confused, angry, and empty.

I’m part of a network of Home Improvement Contractors—an online community of hard-working men and women who understand the grind. It’s more than just swapping leads or trade tips. At its best, it’s a circle of support, encouragement, and sometimes, prayer.

I’m over a half-century old.

That might sound archaic — but it’s the truth. And along this journey, I’ve learned that living, learning, and leading… is hard.

That may not sound encouraging, but it is honest. Life is a grind — every single day. There are wins and losses. Challenges and setbacks. Hurts, disappointments, tragedies, and seasons of brokenness. I’ve asked myself more than once, “Why me?” and “What now?”